Some people's perspective on life will not allow them to see things the way that you intend for them to see. They will over analyze, get offended easily, and have the mindset that you are trying to cause them harm. Be as gentle, sensitive and as thoughtful as you can toward them, but don't stop being who God called you to be. Unfortunately, because of the pain that they have experienced, they see things through a different lens and their first response is defensiveness. You're going to have to allow God to love them through you. Don't fight, curse, or go back in forth, just model the love of God through your patience. God bless!
