Devotional 10/15/20
Husbands and wives, unless you all have discussed specific duties within your household, all work needed to maintain your home falls on both of you. Now, here's the issue. You absolutely cannot complain that one spouse is not pulling their weight if you're going to argue and fight with them on how you want them to do everything around the house. By all means, you both should discuss it, but you can't coach them as if they're your child on everything that they do. When you do this, you give off the impression that you're in charge of everything, which will in turn, cause your spouse to say, pardon the expression, "The hell with it then." You will end up upset and overwhelmed that they don't do anything, not realizing that they stopped because you made them feel that they couldn't do anything right. At some point, you have to be wise enough to thank God for what they're doing and leave them alone. I'm just saying... God bless!